Pleasure Coaching offers you a safe, uninhibited, playful environment
where you can explore and expand your erotic repertoire,
awakening those potentials that lie dormant within you,
waiting to emerge and bring more pleasure into your life.

“Pleasure is the creative force in life. It is the only force strong enough to oppose
the potential destructiveness of power. Many people believe that this role belongs to  love.
But if  love is to be more than a word, it must rest on the experience of pleasure.”
                    — Dr. Alexander Lowen, founder of Bioenergetic Therapy

REFRAMING YOUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE

Many people approach their sexual relationships carrying a burden of expectations based on past experiences. These expectations may be from their own history, or picked up from books, films, or from fantasy. By carrying an image of what it means to be a “good lover” many people believe they have to perform in a certain way during sex. People may not take the time to settle into their sexual experience, or to become sensitive to the feelings and desires of their partners. Without this care, the sexual act becomes meaningless — at best, satisfying the need for the release of tension; at worst, leaving both partners feeling frustrated and unsatisfied.

The goal of Pleasure Coaching is to shift the focus of the sexual experience, reframing it from seeking “good performance” or “tension release” to finding inner peace and relaxation — calmly enjoying the rise and fall of sexual excitation, and savoring this enjoyment by oneself, and shared with a partner. This shift promotes a prolonged state of sexual ecstasy, which in turn promotes a heightened state of awareness.